Sunday, November 25, 2012

Motivation occurs when you persuade others to take an action in their own best interests. Manipulation is persuading others to take an action that is primarily for your benefit. Zig Ziglar

Today Dad celebrated his 89th birthday. After a long and serious illness he is now better.
My sisters, brother and I had a bring and share for the occasion and there was a lot of food on the table. My father was very happy.
Here are a few pictures of the dishes we had and I'm giving the recipe for one of the cakes I prepared.
Veal with soya sauce, pepper and crushed garlic, ready to be mixed with cornflour before being stir fried with sliced onions.


Duck marinated in char siw sauce overnight ready to be roasted.

For dessert sweet potato balls stuffed with 'Nutella'
Ingredients: 500g sweet potato, 300g glutinous rice flour, 200g rice flour, brown sugar and water.
Method: A syrup is made with brown sugar and water.
The sweet potatoes are boiled and mashed. Then they are added to the rice flour mixture.
The syrup is poured onto the mixture which is stirred to combine the ingredients.

A ball is made, from which small pieces are removed and rolled into balls. These are flattened
and some nutella is placed at the centre.
A ball is made again and dropped into boiling water. They are done when they float.

I also prepared lentil soup
Dish brought by my sister in law: salad (cucumber, green, yellow and red peppers, lettuce
Chicken drumsticks steamed with goji berries
Dishes bought by my brother: 'moy choy niouk'


Fried Noodles or Chow Mein

 My sister bought the birthday cake
 Photographs were taken with my dad proudly holding his 'foong paos' and smiling from ear to ear.



Thursday, November 22, 2012

Life's Burdens Are Designed Not To Break Us But To Bend Us Toward God

Found this today in my mail and wanted to share it to whoever peeps into my post. You're most welcome to do so.
It's an article which is very encouraging, especially in difficult circumstances. What is our choice? To become bitter or a better person when we've gone through. Highlighted  points in red.


Bitter or Better?
Lori Freeland
Why is it that when bad things happen to some people they emerge better and stronger at the other end of the crisis while other people shrivel up and build steel walls to keep others out?
Eight years ago, my son was diagnosed with leukemia right before his eleventh birthday. Because his age put him at a higher risk, his treatment plan was harsh and everything that could go wrong did go wrong. We spent a lot of time in the hospital the first year of his almost four-year struggle. 
When you’re in and out of a small isolated hall on the fourth floor of the children’s wing, bonding with other parents becomes natural. Seeing the same faces over and over makes for fast friendships. Especially when you’re taking cover in the same sterile foxhole.  
Years later, a few of those moms I befriended have grown stronger, others have broken, and some are barely hanging on years after cancer rocked their world. It almost doesn’t seem to matter if the child made it to remission or not. 
When something bad happens, you have two choices. Be bitter or be better.
So what made the difference in these moms? Personality? Personal beliefs? Support system?
From my experience, I would have to say none of those things.
I believe hope made the difference. But not any hope. Hope in something real. Hope in something outside of ourselves. Hope in a life-changing God. 
If you choose to be bitter, you build your future on rage and hate and resentment. And really when you think about that, all that anger only hurts you. That big ball of acid tartness you’re carrying around your heart only eats at you. No one else. The bitterness steals your joy and renders you useless to reach out to anyone else.
“Another man dies in bitterness of soul, never having enjoyed anything good”(Job 21:25 NIV).
If you choose to be better, you let all the bad stuff go. You ask God to take an extremely horrible situation and make something beautiful. He can, you know. He’s the only one that can turn ugly into exquisite. He uses your trials to transform and uses you to help others. 
“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him”(James 1:2-5).
The next time you face a trauma, remember you aren’t powerless. You have the will to choose, will this struggle make you bitter or better?
Lori Freeland is a freelance author from Dallas, Texas with a passion to share her experiences in hopes of connecting with other women tackling the same issues. She holds a bachelor's degree in psychology from the University of Wisconsin-Madison and is a full-time homeschool mom. You can find Lori at lafreeland.com and regularly blogging on Crosswalk.
Publication date: November 20, 2012




Sunday, November 18, 2012

A Heart Open To God Is Soil In Which The Seed Of His Word Can Flourish

Reading and meditating on the Word of God is essential to our spiritual life.
The Hebrew word for meditating means chewing. So when we are meditating we are chewing on God's Word.
I'll be sharing a few of my morsels with you from time to time.
Today I'll be sharing on JOHN 10 about THE GOOD SHEPHERD with reference to PSALM 23 also. 
It is a teaching I did on the 19.05.96 in my church.
John 10:1-18, 27-30  English Standard Version (ESV)
I Am the Good Shepherd
10 “Truly, truly, I say to you, he who does not enter the sheepfold by the door but climbs in by another way, that man is a thief and a robber. 
But he who enters by the door is the shepherd of the sheep. 
To him the gatekeeper opens. The sheep hear his voice, and he calls his own sheep by name and leads them out. 
When he has brought out all his own, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice. 
A stranger they will not follow, but they will flee from him, for they do not know the voice of strangers. 
This figure of speech Jesus used with them, but they did not understand what he was saying to them.
So Jesus again said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. 
All who came before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them.
I am  the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. 
10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. 
11 I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. 
12 He who is a hired hand and not a shepherd, who does not own the sheep, sees the wolf coming and leaves the sheep and flees, and the wolf snatches them and scatters them. 
13 He flees because he is a hired hand and cares nothing for the sheep. 14 I am the good shepherdI know my own and my own know me, 
15 just as the Father knows me and I know the Father; and I lay down my life for the sheep. 
16 And I have other sheep that are not of this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd. 
17 For this reason the Father loves me, because I lay down my life that I may take it up again. 
18 No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again.This charge I have received from my Father.”

27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. 28 I give them eternal life, and they will never perish, and no one will snatch them out of my hand. 
29 My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all, and no one is able to snatch them out of the Father's hand. 
30 I and the Father are one.”

Shepherding was a common occupation in Israel. Every time the word "sheep" is used it is in the plural form. They were reared for meat, milk, wool and for sacrifices. They were not fenced and were not left to fend for themselves. 
Sheep are peculiar animals. They are totally dependent on the shepherd. They need the shepherd to lead them to grass and water. At night, they are guided into a fold built by the shepherd. The fold has only one entrance and the shepherd lies down there the whole night. Any predator had to get the shepherd before they could get to the sheep.
There is a special bond between the shepherd and the sheep. Each one has a name and the shepherd would call out the names and the sheep would follow him.
In the Scriptures mentioned above, in the gospel of John, 6 classes of people are described:
  • 1. v11 - The shepherd - Jesus himself
  • 2. v3   - The porter or doorkeeper
  • 3. v1  - Thieves and Robbers - pseudo Messiahs
  • 4. v5  - Strangers - Any person assuming leadership without pretending to     be a Messiah
  • 5. v4 - Sheep - represent the Lord's people who hear His Voice and follow   Him
  • 6. v12 - The hireling - represent the priests and pharisees who entered the fold as an authorised agent condemned for cowardice and selfishness.
The Shepherd                                             Verses

  • enters through the door                                2
  • receives cooperation of the porter                 3
  • receives obedience of the sheep                   3
  • calls His own sheep by name                        3
  • leads them out                                             3
  • precedes them and guides them                    4
  • is followed by them                                       4
  • is the door of the sheep                                 7
  • is the only true shepherd                                8
  • is the avenue to safety and sustainance          9
  • brings life for the sheep                               10
  • sacrifices his life for the sheep                     11
  • knows the sheep                                         14
  • has several folds (speaking of Gentiles)        16
  • is under necessity of bringing other sheep     16
  • sacrifices himself voluntarily                          18
  • possesses power over his own life                18
  • provides security for the sheep                      28
The hireling
  • lacks the spontaneous responsibility of the shepherd for the sheep  12
  • is cowardly, and flees in the face of danger                                   12
  • has no particular concern for the sheep                                         13
  • his sole interest is in the reward                                                    13
The Sheep
  • recognise the shepherd's voice (involves familiarity)                      3
  • follow the shepherd                                                                    4
  • refuse to follow strangers                                                        5, 8
  • their safety and sustainance is in the shepherd                             9
  • are not all of one fold                                                                 16
Nature of true believers
  • sensitive - They hear my voice                                   27
  • fellowship - I know them                                            27
  • obedience - They follow me                                        27
  • have life - I give them eternal life                                 28
  • assurance - They shall never perish                             28
  • security - No one will snatch them out of my hand         28
Is Jesus our shepherd? Are we His sheep? Do we recognise His voice when He calls us? Do we obey Him when He leads and guides us? Do we have the assurance that no one can snatch us from His hand?



Monday, November 12, 2012

The Brain Is Like A Muscle. When It Is In Use We Feel Very Good. Understanding Is Joyous. Carl Sagan(Astronomer and author 1934-96)

If you want to enjoy life more, use your mind. Challenge yourself to contemplate difficult ideas. Read. Have intelligent discussions. Write your thoughts in a journal. Write emails or letters to your friends about what you are thinking. (Let me add share your ideas in a or several blogs). Italics are mine.
Give your brain a workout as you would give your muscles a workout at the gym. 

Discovered this site to make mindmaps or concept maps for revision purposes. It's called spicynodes.
I tried one on cells and am posting the link here for whoever wants to have a go at it.

http://www.spicynodes.org/a/7516d4dd400e57862914b9b79e8f2f65




Saturday, November 10, 2012

We Should Not Mistake Worn Nerves, Physical Weakness Or Depression For Unspirituality. Many Times Sleep Is More Needed Than Prayer & Physical Recreation Than Heart Searching. - Dr Lewis Spevy Chafer (founder of Dallas Seminary)

God cannot use someone who is not in good health physically, mentally and spiritually. So we need to feed on His Word, cast all our burdens on Him and take rest by sleeping soundly before we engage in any task for His Glory.
So many children of God are wounded soldiers from the circumstances of life and there are so many who drive themselves crazy, in a frenzy to do some work to prove that they are worthy of the God they are serving. They mistake it for zeal for God when, in fact, they need to go to the Fountain of Life to quench their thirst and wash themselves of the dust and grime of earthly living.
Let us therefore find the comfort of His arms and allow Him to refresh us so we can be revived and be filled with His Spirit to undertake what He has prepared for us to do, and all, of course, for His Glory.



Friday, November 9, 2012

If We Have God's Word In Our Mind, He Can Put The Right Words In Our Mouth - rbc.org

Yesterday has been very tiring for me as assistant organiser of the practical Biology exams. at school. There were 2 sessions of 2 hours with 15 candidates in each.
Went to school at 7.30 am and started preparing equipment and materials at 7.50. The first session began at 10.35 am and finished at 12.35 pm. The second session started at 1.15 pm and ended at 3.15 pm.
This meant that I had to stay in the lab. till the second session started and even then could only move out to have lunch 10 minutes later.
After the second session had ended I had to help clear up a few things so the lab. attendant did not have too much to do today.

Waking up today, my feet were aching and I was aching all over. It has been a good experience but I don't know if I'll do it again. I think it's because my own students were taking the exams and I was watching them work in both sessions.
Found this t-shirt which is an encouragement for me on sazzle.com.
This funny pic also made me smile and made me acknowledge that the Rest in the Lord is the best. - www.womenwalkinginthespiritofchrist.com
This one is from http://sheddinglightonthepath.blogspot.com
The following has been taken from http://pastoralcounselingsupportarticles.wordpress.com/2011/01/09/rest-experiencing-gods-peace-in-a-restless-world/

(Adapted from the book Rest: Experiencing God’s Peace in a Restless World by Dr. Siang-Yang Tan)
We are truly living in an age of anxiety. Anxiety has become the leading emotional problem of our day. Common responses to the questions, “How are you doing?” include: “I am really busy.” “I’m exhausted.” “There’s just too much to do.” “I’m tired. I need a vacation.” “I’m burned out.” “There’s too much going on.” “I’m so stressed out, I can’t keep up anymore!”
The buzzwords of our lives today are: Busyness. Stress. Overload. The demands of life have far outgrown the resources we have to meet them, leading to what has been termed, “The Overload Syndrome.” People are exhausted.  People are stressed.  People are overloaded.  We need more time.  We need more space.  We need more reserves.  We need more buffer.
Closely related to overwork and overload is our preoccupation with speed. In our embrace of speed, we are obsessed with efficiency and productivity. We are horrified at the thought of wasting any time. Bill Gates recently wrote a book entitled Business at the Speed of Thought. In trying to beat the clock, we walk faster, drive faster, work faster. But at a great cost. Levels of stress and anxiety are increased exponentially. Unrest is the result. Unrest is feeling fearful, anxious, panicked, scattered, harried, hurried, overwhelmed, exhausted, discontent, driven, stressed. It’s the opposite of what we most deeply long for: rest.
People are seeking rest today with a vengeance! They are doing things such as taking stress management classes, going on retreats, and trying hard to change their lifestyles so they can find some peace and rest again. Ironically, more and more people are stressed out trying to overcome stress. We try too hard to find rest, and the hard work of rest often leads to further unrest and restlessness. We need to have a deeper, more biblical understanding of rest and how to experience or enter into rest – God’s rest, in God’s way.
Rest can be described as a state of peace, contentment, serenity, refreshment, stillness, tranquility, or calm. The qualities of rest include: quietness of heart; a sober awareness of who we are and who God is; an ability to let go (and not try so hard, even at resting); an ability to enjoy leisure, nature, and things that do not involve performance; reflection; trust; an ability to live from our higher or true self -to determine our values and live by them, enjoying the moment, not living in the past or the future; breathing easily and deeply; waiting without impatience; not being impulsive or rash.
What is the difference between rest and leisure or amusement? Rest is found beyond leisure. It is God who instituted and commanded rest – true Sabbath rest – for humankind (see Ex 20:8-11; 34:21). He is also the first “rester” Himself (see Gen 2:2-3; Ex 31:17). This rest was not meant to be a luxury, but rather a necessity for those who want to have growth and maturity. Since we have not understood that rest is a necessity, we have perverted its meaning, substituting for the rest that God first demonstrated things called leisure or amusement. Leisure and amusement may be enjoyable, but they are to the private world of the individual like cotton candy to the digestive system. They provide momentary lift, but they will not last.The world and the church need genuinely rested Christians (and families): Those who are regularly refreshed by true Sabbath rest, not just leisure or time off. When godly rest is achieved, you will see just how tough and resilient Christians (and families) can actually be.
Taken from three main words that are used in the Old Testament to describe rest, we can conclude these terms paint us a rich and multifaceted picture. Rest involves something we do, something we experience and something God gives us. We see that we must regularly cease from our work and become still before God to gain a sense of tranquility and to loose the shackles of stress. God provides supernatural security and peace.
Also, we should not think of work versus rest but work and rest. God invented both at virtually the same time; they are meant to complement, not fight against each other. A godly life is a life of rest. A godly life is a life of work. Scripture places rest and work side by side and sees them both as good.
Despite our deep desire to experience true Sabbath rest, many of us, ironically, are afraid of rest. There may be various reasons. First, we may be addicted to the adrenaline rush of busyness. Second, we may be afraid of rest because we are fearful of facing our true state of being: our emptiness, our bad feelings, our painful memories. It is easier and more comfortable to keep busy, to keep going on without stopping to rest. Resting and reflecting may bring us face to face with painful inner feelings and struggles we would rather avoid or keep out of our consciousness. Third, we may be fearful of rest because we tend to define ourselves by what we produce or how we perform. We have a tendency to use external criteria of success to define our self-worth and the worth of our families. Many of us feel we must continue to produce, perform, excel, and keep up. We are afraid to slow down and rest because we may be left behind in our business, careers, and comparisons to others. Fourth, closely connected to the previous reason, many of us may feel that it’s all up to us to “make it” in life, believing that if we slow down or change, things will simply fall apart. Many of us are afraid of rest because we are afraid of losing speed, losing ground, and losing our lifestyles. Finally, we may be afraid of rest because we feel trapped in our ever-increasing cycle of activity and accelerated busyness. We can’t see a way out. The situation may appear so hopeless and helpless that we give up trying to rest at all. In fact, to stop and rest makes us feel more anxious about all the things we are leaving undone. We end up avoiding rest and trying to do even more in the time-starved days of our lives.
We continue to suffer from the disease of “hurry sickness.” As has been written, “hurry is the great enemy of spiritual life in our day. Hurry can destroy our souls. Hurry can keep us from living well.” “Hurry is not of the devil; hurry is the devil.” The enemy of our souls knows full well how hurry sickness or unrest can ultimately destroy us. He will do his best to keep us from God’s rest. He entices us to drive ourselves onward, create ever more activity, fill our emptiness with external stimuli to avoid the disquiet in our soul. Consequently, we often clutch at people and things that keep us engaged in the cycle of a hurried and harried life.
There are four aspects of rest that are necessary to understand:
Physical: Many of us suffer today from heart disease as well as other stress-related illnesses, including addictions, panic attacks, exhaustion, insomnia, headaches, muscle tension, and high blood pressure. Such physical suffering often stems from our inability to manage our lives and to learn how to rest.
Physical rest includes time for leisure and sleep, especially taking a Sabbath day off each week and sleeping at least eight hours a night. It also involves good nutrition, regular exercise, and practicing at least one good relaxation technique as part of stress management. We protect our physical rest by refusing to overwork and making sure we have enough of a time buffer.
Emotional: Many of us feel as if we can’t keep up with the demands and stresses of our lives. The results often include depression, anxiety, panic, fear, confusion, and feeling trapped or overwhelmed.
Emotional rest means experiencing peace, quiet, tranquility, contentment, serenity, and refreshment instead of anxiety, fear, panic, tension, discontent, depression, exhaustion, and fatigue. Intellectual or mental rest is part of emotional rest. If our minds are at rest, our emotions can relax. Emotional rest also comes from spiritual rest.
Relational: Many of us experience “restless relationships” or “fractured relationships.” Whether in the home, church, school, workplace, or the larger community of which we are a part, the presence of unresolved conflicts, broken relationships, misunderstanding, contention, bitterness, strife, and especially an unforgiving spirit can cause much unrest and pain.
Relational rest can be found in the context of our caring and loving relationships with other people. Such relationships don’t work without a heart of love and a soul that is experiencing some level of spiritual and emotional peace deep within. Our spiritual, emotional, and physical rest are all deepened when we receive the gifts of loving and caring relationships in a family of people who believe in Jesus Christ.
Spiritual: Many of us find it difficult to trust God, to hear His voice, to sense His presence. God seems far away, and the weight of the world rests on our shoulders. We may have an exaggerated sense of self, leading us t believe it is up to us alone to free ourselves from this burden. We may go through the motions of trusting in God but do not reap the rewards or blessing.
Spiritual rest is by far the most crucial type of rest, although many of us miss it. We need rest from our guilt, doubt, confusion, emptiness, dryness, and despair. We long for the peace of God that transcends all understanding (see Phil 4:7). Such supernatural peace comes when we learn to pray with thanksgiving (Phil 4:6) and to cast all our cares or anxiety upon Him because He cares for us (I Pet 5:7). The writer of the book of Hebrews specifically deals with spiritual rest – God’s rest – in Hebrews 4:1: “Therefore, since the promise of entering his rest still stands, let us be careful that none of you be found to have fallen short of it.” The promise of entering into or experiencing God’s rest – true spiritual rest in Him – is still true for the people of God. God’s rest is available today to those of us who believe in the gospel of Jesus Christ and receive His rest by faith (Heb 4:2-3). We can still enter into His rest experientially now by maintaining an active faith relationship with the One who invented rest in the first place.
F. B. Meyers called the theme in Hebrews 4 the Gospel of Rest:
When we once learn to live by faith, believing that our Father loves us, and will not forget or forsake us, but is pledged to supply all our needs; when we acquire the holy habit of talking to Him about all, and handing all over to Him, at the moment that the tiniest shadow is cast upon the soul; when we accept insult, and annoyance, and interruption, coming to us from whatever quarter as being His permission, and therefore, as part of His dear will for us – then we have learned the secret of the Gospel of Rest.



Wednesday, November 7, 2012

God Chooses What We Go Through, We Choose How We Go Through It.

A friend of mine in Ghana sent me a message today saying a 6-storey shopping mall collapsed today in the capital Accra. There were a few who have been trapped and three people so far confirmed dead. The pics. below are from Yahoo.com



Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Much Education Today Is Monumentally Ineffective. All Too Often We Are Giving Young People Cut Flowers When We Should Be Teaching ThemGrow Their Own Plants - John W. Gardner

Today I took some pics. of seedlings which have grown from seeds my niece and I had sown last week.
In fact, I had forgotten about them after we had watered them. Much to my surprise I saw that the seeds had germinated and I quickly went to fetch my camera.




I also took some pics. of my other plants: my gloxinia will be flowering soon!!

 My crab pinces or this is how we call it here - pinces de crabe
 My money plants.





Monday, November 5, 2012

Put Your Nose Into The Bible Everyday. It Is Your Spiritual Food. And Then Share It. Make A Vow Not To Be A Lukewarm Christian - Kirk Cameron

Last week I spent time with my niece, showing her some cookery tips. She really enjoyed herself and can now make her own mayonaise.

Macaroni soup was cooked on the 27th October for lunch.
Recipe: 
grate 2 large carrots, cook with water. When the water is boiling add the macaroni. Allow to cook until al dente and add 1 packet of maggi chicken noodle. Add eggs to be poached. Turn off fire when  cooked. 
On the 29th October we cooked 'You Cha Kwee' as the Hakka people call it or 'Yu Tiao' in Mandarin.
Recipe:
Ingredients - 500 g flour, 1-2 teaspoons yeast, 3/4 cup cold water, 1/2 teaspoon salt, 2-3 tablespoons oil.
Method - Mix all and knead into a dough. Place in a bowl.
Place cling film over it and 
place in the sun or a warm oven for 15 minutes.
After 15 minutes, remove the cling film. The dough would have risen.
Remove the dough from the bowl and roll it out. 
Make any shape you like. Sesame seeds can be used to coat them.



Fry in hot oil, the temperature must be controlled so that it does not burn.





In the meantime we also made some gato gingeli or 'laughing mouths'.
RECIPE:
Ingredients - (1/2 cup sugar, 5 tablespoons water, 1 tablespoon margarine or oil, 1 egg) This is part 1
(2 cups flour, 1 teaspoon baking powder). This is part 2
1/2 cup sesame seeds, oil for frying.
Method:
Mix 1. Sift 2. Add to 1. Obtain a soft, sticky dough. 









Cut into pieces.
Add some water to the sesame seeds to wet them. Pour out the water.


Roll the dough pieces into balls and into the wet sesame seeds.



Pyramid made by my niece.
Fry on low heat until they expand and are golden.


Mayonnaise
Ingredients - 2 egg yolks, 1 clove garlic, 1 teaspoon salt, some pepper, oil.
The garlic was crushed. Egg yolks were added + salt + pepper in a bowl.
The mixture was stirred and oil was added little by little. The mixture must be stirred continuously while adding the oil. 
When the mixture is thick, a few drops of vinegar can be added to make it thinner.